That's what Super asked me tonight - after a particularly long, tired, week.
I answered "Well, things would be cleaner longer, and I'd probably work at a job that wasn't at our house. But I probably would be more sad too."
"Why would you be more sad?" he said.
"Because I wouldn't have you and your two sisters. And most of the time, you make me very, very happy." I said.
"But not when I break stuff?" he asked.
"Yes. I am not very happy when you break stuff." I replied.
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